I met a girl last week at a party and we both were attracted to each other. I got her number and texted her two days later.
Ever since we've been texting everyday back and forth (I've called her too so don't worry). She'd go to bed saying stuff like "text me tomorrow" or "I'll text you tomorrow!" and stuff like that. Not once did I text her twice in a row, and every day it seemed to switch off who texted first.
However, yesterday I was texting her and the convo died and she stopped responding. Then today she texted me saying she couldn't go out with me tonight like we planned but that she wanted to some other time. So I said it was fine, not sure if she meant it or not. I tried to start a convo but she stopped responding again.
I'm probably over thinking it but I'm worried that I annoyed her by texting a lot, even though she was the one texting me or telling me to text her. I almost feel like it was some sort of test to see if I would or not...
Anyway, is it possibly that we texted so much that I bored her? usually our little conversations were pretty good though.
I want to call her again to set up another date but at the same time I want to see if she contacts me first about it, or just texts me to talk in general.
I really don't think she blew me off tonight because she seemed like she really wanted to go when I first asked, and today she said we should go out another time. But then again shortly after that she stopped responding, so I don't know.
Anyway, I typed this quickly so it may be hard to understand but can anyone figure out why she would be texting me so much and suddenly stop? I hate that...
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I'm not sure why she stopped texting, but you didn't do anything wrong. I would wait a few days and let everything mellow...then send her a text and try to set up a date. If she flakes again or doesn't respond, forget her and move on. If a girl likes you, she'll respond to you and want to go out. If she's flaky, then forget her.0