Is that normal if this is my first relationship? I want to show my boyfriend more affection in public just little things but feel nervous about it. any suggestions? anyone else feel like this?
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its a very normal situation you can easily overcome it, jus because you relate to that feeling of shyness at some point in your life. Socially, we tend to have the misconception that only introverts experience shyness, but that is not true. Shyness has more to do with being uncomfortable with one’s self, especially around other people.
you tend to pay too much attention to all the things you are doing wrong when you are around other people. another thing stop labeling yourself as shy person, most of the time
when we leave shy situations, what we are really doing is reinforcing our shyness. Instead, face the situation square in the face. Turn the fearful situation into a place of introspection and personal growth. Become the observer and dig into yourself, answer the questions: why do I feel this way? What caused me to feel this way? Can there be an alternative explanation to what is happening?
'but personally I suggest you not to do that thing publicly because it does't have any sense love never needs show off'