you've all heard of the saying "I usually don't date "X" but it depends on the person", in which X can be anything from height, intelligence, wealth, race, or any other preference.
I personally don't agree with this statement. I think it is UP TO YOU and not the person who influences your decision to date. Its due to your perception that you don't find the person attractive not because of their level of attractiveness. I know there are features that are desirable such as hygiene, assertiveness, etc... but overall you decide what you want to see and not see. You analyze things either positively or negatively despite the feature ex. height, is desirable to you or not.
Do you think the saying is b.s or true?
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Is the saying "I don't date "X" but it depends on the person" false? Not generally
Do you think the saying is b.s or true? True or b.s. depending on the person.
There are things people find undesirable and depending on how important the trait is if a person who has that undesirable trait has other worthwhile traits that compensate/override it then the undesirable trait doesn't matter as much.
To me it's up to you and the person.
You- how important X is...some things to people just can't be overriden/compensated for.
The person- if they have other trait(s) can override/compensate for X.
Ex: X wasn't that important & the person could override/compensate for X
A girl doesn't date guys shorter than her but there's a really nice & confident & rich guy who is shorter than her and she dates him.
Ex: X wasn't that important & the person couldn't override/compensate for X
A girl doesn't date introverts but there's a really nice introvert guy...doesn't matter his niceness is not enough to override/compensate for it.
Ex: X is important no compensating for it
A guy doesn't date fatties but there's a personality compatible, really nice, sweet, kind, mother/wife material fat girl he enjoys spending time with and has fun with...he still won't date her because she's a fattie0