Question: I have been seeing a guy for almost 2 months. Things are going extremely well. I have been introduced to his friends (he's even told his closest friend details about our spending time together). We have great phone conversations as well as in person. However, things are moving along slowly, which is actually fine with me. But ... He hasn't kissed me yet. We do have physical contact - like massages, cuddling, hand holding. Flirty touching; we've spent the night together a few times now. I appreciate the fact that we are getting to know each other and not just jumping into things. But, I'm extremely eager for our 1st kiss! He kissed me on the cheek several times last week... But I want more. I've been told to just go in for it, and other times told to wait. I guess more specifically my question isn't to try and figure him out but to discover possible reasons as to "why a guy would wait so long to initiate a kiss and what can I do (if anything) to remove any fears he may have about kissing me"? [If it helps we're both adults He's 22 and I'm 20 so this isn't our first time around the block].
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First things first, did both of you guys tell each other that you guys have feelings for each other?
Because this is one flaw anyone can be doing: Being led on.
I have a lot of girl-friends where I take out to dinners, movies, and I get to cuddle, hug, and have my arms around them while doing so. No matter how close we are, we are just "close friends"... nothing more. This has already been settled and established because I already had the "talk" with them about this. And yes, I also introduce her (more than one girl!) to my friends.
If you guys are already established, then ignore all I wrote on the top. If this is established with both of you, then just go in for the kill. Peck him unexpectingly. Guys find it pretty sexy of a girl being ambitious for them. Its like "Wow, this girl would go to her extremes for this?" Hell, you might as well wear tight leather jeans while doing so too. =P2