OK so I always hear that a girl shouldn't ever text a guy first as the guy will find her needy or desperate. but today I texted a guy first (usually wait for him to text me or call me first) just to say hi and to hope he had a good flight and enjoying his time and I would talk to him soon...and I left it at that. was really just a touching base text as he is seeing his child this week who he usually doesn't get to see (different state). is it OK I sent that? I didn't ask him when I'd see him next or anything...just don't get why it would be issue if I sent a text as people keep telling me I shouldn't...any feedback would be great. thanks!
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Where do girls get this nonsense about texting first? Seriously, it's a crock and the fact that girls are spreading all this BS about what they THINK guys want (when they're totally wrong) to other girls only makes it harder for guys.
Girls, whenever you think you know what guys want or how they think, I want you to take that thought, and shove it where the son doesn't shine. It'll do better there than in your head.
In any case, follow your instincts. Do what you want to do.
For the record I once broke up with an ex because she never initiated contact.0