The guy I'm currently dating seems to like me a lot. but how come He doesn't ask any questions about me, and doesn't tell me much about himself? That just makes me feel like he doesn't care or doesn't like me, (mixed signals confuse me) we have been dating for a few weeks now and he has always been like that since I met him. I need some "out of the circle" opinions on this please, thank you :)
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Do you ask questions about him?
Do you tell him much about yourself?
How long did you know each other before dating?
Have you been physical? To what degree.
Most likely he is just playing it cool, and doesn't want to come on too strong. If it's not moving fast enough invite him out for coffee "just to get to know each other better" make a game out of it. There is this one "magic" trick you can do I call questions.
Tell him you can read his mind!
Two Pens and 8 torn up pieces of paper. (One sheet cut up works fine)
You get one pen, He gets one pen. you each get 4 sheets of paper.
Question 4 will be simple 50/50 shot, Pick a color black or white,
Do you love football or baseball better.
You ask him a question about XXX We will call this Question 1: make up something you want to know about him.
You write down the ANSWER to questions 4:
he writes down the answer to your question. You folder yours and place it down on the table, and then have him place his face up (so not to get them confused) (READ IT) but try not to be obvious..
You ask question number 2 XYXTXYXYXYX
he writes down the answer to question number 2
you write down the answer to question NUMBER1 folder it and place it down.
have him place his down face up next to the other one (READ IT)
I hope you can see where this is going.
For the final question Ask him the 50/50 (you've already written this down so I hope you remembered it)
have him place his down... then pick all of his up.. and walk up and throw them away... (leaving him with your answers) notice if he peeks...
Once you come back open up all your answers and reply the game ask him question one lay down the answer before your finished with the questions...
Seems dumb, but for a moment you will blow his mind, and you've gotten to know each other better.
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