This girl likes me and I like her amd she knows it I guess we are "talking" or whatever they call it but anyways I am sick of texting her first and I feel like I'm annoying her! We were texting at school amd she just didn't respond I didn't think much of it cause she probably couldn't text in that class so I got home and its been 2 1/2 hours and she stil hasn't texted me...is she waiting for me to text her or annoyed because we text everyday?
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Ugh, I've been in that same situation. In the beginning my boyfriend took hours to answer to my messages. I though he wasn't replying on purpose, playing mysterious, but then I learned that his ringtone barely makes noise and most times he's away from it or simply doesn't see it. Once, I waited for a reply 5 hours! I know how insane this must drive you, especially if you're nothing official. My guess, is that she's playing hard to get, but this might wear you down and may get you thinking that she really isn't that into you. My advice is to blatanly ask her "hey, is it wrong if I text you at these hours on these days? Because I don't want to interrupt your class or anything. Sometimes I just wanna share some words, but seeing that sometimes you're busy, I rather text/call you later or you could give me a call when you're most available. It'd be cool"
That way, she gets it. She gets that playing hard to get might lead you to just lose interest. I was like your girlfriend, always letting my boyfriend text me first, just to see "how much" interested he was in me. When it was clear that he was in love and that I was in love, there there was some equity, and now we text each other at any time for any reason. She won't feel annoyed or offended, if you're honest. If anything, she should feel the danger of losing your attention. Is she isn't annoyed, you'll know with her answer, if she is, she'll tell you. The point is, I think, not losing anyone's time.0