The inner Jerk in me has a question:
I like this girl. And I think she likes me. We probably only see each other once a month because we are both so busy. We have made plans for over a year to see a really good show for Xmas.
Anyway, I can't be sure if she is interested in me. So rather than invest my emotions in her, should I date other women as well?
And for this show, should I find a back-up for this show just in case she doesn't show up or cancels last minute?
AND more importantly should I, as a point of principle, let her know that if she doesn't show I have a backup?
Or would that be too rude and ungentlemanly?
- Yes, find a backup and tell her to let he know where she may standVote A
- Yes. Find a backup but keep it secretVote B
- No. Do not find a backup and do not let her know, because that's the right-good thing to doVote C
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It's not even a questions rather you are a jerk for finding a backup or not..
Bottom line is if you like the girls, tell her.. If you likes you back, great! If not, stop wasting them and stop investing in her..
Life is short.. and Love is simple.. Don't find a back up, find out in advance if you is really going to come. Otherwise, go with your best buddy and enjoy your night instead of finding another girl who you like less and get her hopes up.0