All else being equal, who would you rather be with: someone who makes you feel totally comfortable with being yourself, or someone who inspires you to be a better version of yourself?
- I'd rather be myself.Vote A
- I'd rather be inspired.Vote B
Most Helpful Girl
Personally, I would rather be inspired to be better, and by better I mean more outgoing, because I'm pretty shy. So I want a guy who would encourage me to come out of my shell a bit and help me be more comfortable with myself and with being around other people without cowering away a little bit and being so quiet. However, I don't want a guy who is deicieving me into thinking that I need to change myself as far as my values, or the more important parts of my personality, besided shyness. I want to be able to be true to and comfortable as myself, but be challenged to be a better person in places where I could really use it.1