I know it's 2011! That doesn't mean much to me as I'm quite traditional. Anyway I went out with a guy that's been asking me out. I really didn't even want to really go. We had a light snack and a few cocktails. I stepped away for a few moments and when I returned. He told me he had paid the bill and how much it was. He then says. Well I asked you out so it's expected for me to pay. I didn't say anything because he took me by surprise. I'm not at all cheap and don't mind going Dutch or even picking up the tab.
Was it wrong of me to assume he would pay because he asked me out? Is this an indication he's just cheap? Should I mention it to him? Should I give him half the money next time I see him? Is it me or is this weird?
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I believe you are right he asked you out and he should have paid and not said a single word about the cost. And if he wants you to pay next time assuming there is a next time, take him to Taco Bell or Jack In The Box, insist on it.0