Guys buying drinks at bars is something that we ALWAYS portrayed in movies, on TV, in books, etc.
When I became 21 and was able to LEGALLY drink , I started to question this ritual.
Do I buy a girl a drink to introduce myself?
Do I buy a drink after I talk to her? How long do I talk to her until I buy her a drink?
If I don't buy a girl a drink at all, how does that make me look in her eyes? Will she automatically lose interest because I didn't buy her a drink?
How much of an advantage TRULY IS, in buying a girl a drink at the bar? Am I bribing her with her money? Will she feel obligated to talk to me JUST BECAUSE I bought her a drink?
With the feminist era, women are able to provide for themselves, so is buying a woman a drink an outdated ritual?
See how complicated this is? I can't be the only one that thinks this way.
Share your thoughts about this ritual. Feel free to be detailed to explain your thoughts in full detail. Just PLEASE break up your response into paragraphs. :)
Anonym is allowed.
I know I tend to ask probing ?'s lol.
Thanks for your input, everyone. 8-)
Most Helpful Guy
A ritual for tools. If you want to waste all your money on women you just met then do it.5