So, I'm 20 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. I know people will say that I'm young yet, but I'm very lonely and I'd like to date and have fun like other people my age.
Whenever I leave the house, I always try and look my best and have an open, friendly attitude, but I never get approached by guys. I am shy, so that might be part of the problem, but I still try.
But since I've never been asked out, it makes me feel really unattractive. And growing up, I was always one of the chubbier kids at school. It makes me believe that I can't find a boyfriend because of the way I look - since I think I'm a relatively smart, kind person otherwise.
I have pictures on my profile - please take a look! I'm a size 12/14 and 5'4".
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You would be surprised of how many single people are out there looking around just like you. But you are really doing the right thing from what I see. One thing I would suggest is you should do some initiation of conversation and dates. In our modern age, females can ask guys out and shouldn't feel anything wrong about that.
I would say work on your shyness which in turn works on your confidence. You would be surprised how much different things are when you are just more confident in yourself.