These days I can't think clearly... So I was wondering what would you do?
Okay, you found this guy... he is the ONE; you know it, you know that he is the love of your life, you connect, you're good together, everything is perfect. On the other hand, there is your career, something you worked for all your life.
What would be your priority? Love or work?
What would you do, let go the love of your life and concentrate or your career or try to find a way to cope with both?
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I choose career without even knowing I was choosing, if work called I'd drop everything and do what was needed of me and without knowing my boyfriend felt neglected and we spent less and less time together. When I did see him he was distant and cold I asked him about it and he was like I don't know if I want to be in this relationship anymore - I'm a pretty strong person so I broke up with him in saying that he shouldn't have to think about whether or not he wants to be with me. I was really upset and missed him so much, it wasn't until we were broken up that he told me that he felt like he was second priority etc etc anyway I was miserable for close to a year my grades also struggled and I really hated going to work - I have pulled myself together now and I'm on the right track but the moral of my story is that if I could do it over I would have picked my boyfriend, you think cause you got that boyfriend hell easy that it's easy to get another - it is really hard to find someone that you want to be around all the time!
Do what will make you the happiest! - sure a good career is great and you should be proud of that but when all that is gone what will you have? If you know you are in love with him - Hold on to that with both hands.2