I am a 31 year old man with no car. Reason being is because there's no real need for one where I live now. The public transit system is TOO good to have need for one. And depending on where you're trying to go, it's impractical to own one. I have a motorcycle for pleasure and that's all I need.
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What do you bring to the table? Are you employed? I have been in a bad spot in my life before but I am way better off than most people now. Are you the type of girl that's always going to jump when things get hard. Relationships are about people helping each other.
I'd be cautious that he'd try to use me to bail him out of his bad decisions. Not everyone who is 30 is accountable for their actions, and that is a major trait that I look for in my partner.
why is he 30 with no car, no bed and just moving out of his parents house? what has he been doing with his life? no I don't think I could date him knowing this information
U already indicated that you want someone more stable/has their stuff together...so I think you know you'd prefer to just stay friends with him.
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Is he trying to better himself or is he happy with the way things are? I'm 28 lost my job and place and had to move back home with my mother. (no car) Out looking for work at least 3 out of 5 days a week with an online app or 2 on the weekends. As a man I hate having to depend on others so I consider myself out the dating game until I get things back on track.
If you're looking for someone more stable then I think it's probably best for you to let him go. You shouldn't be with someone that you can't picture yourself with; It just won't work. If you know you really like this guy, you're willing to look past his situation and you can see a future with him then stay.
I bought and sold a condo, bought a house, and was married with a child before I bought a car.
If I didn't have kids, I'd sell the one I have now.It is up to you. Nobody can really decide if it is worth for you! Only you really know. I can just tell you that you are asking pretty good questions.
Hope for the best for you.If he has a plan to eventually become independent, then give him a chance. If he is not going anywhere or has no direction, then the friend route makes sense.
I think your right just be friends. Until he gets his act together!
What's more important, the guy, or the fact that he's not completely financially established? If you really like him than it shouldn't matter.
1st thought- Did you mean to choose female?
2nd thought- No.i'm surprised you gave him a chance
No I would not :)
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