What's your biggest problem in communicating with people you like?

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I am pretty selective and let first impressions guide me. Sometimes they point the wrong way!

    I'm too aggressive with women who are shy and too stand offish with really sociable women.

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What Guys Said 4

  • my biggest issue is that I'm aggressive. I'm very social and will basically talk like I've known you for months lol. With women I think it intimidates them in some way. If I like her, I act the same way of course but sometimes if she doesn't respond I am quick to leave her alone. That's my issue. I'm trying to change my way of thinking by keeping my female friends as friends and see what happens.

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  • uh I cant, that's my problem. I just freeze completly. Not that I get anxious, its just the words don't come out. I think I have a speech problem though, my mouth doenst keep up to my thoughts. Probably due to me not socializing that much especially with girls haha

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  • Screwing things up when I talk to the girl or sounding like a dumb ass.

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  • Saying hi and actually meeting them

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What Girls Said 6

  • I agree with quite a few people on here but especially with labbie87 and jesstacia.

    I want to be witty so he likes my company but I don't want to bug him. So I end up freezing and not saying anything. Then whatever I manage to get out I analyze the crap out of until I feel so embarrassed that I feel dumb and hope I don't have to face him again. I wish I could relax and not put so much pressure on myself so I could just be me.

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  • Wondering what they'd be thinking about me, whether they'd be glad to hear from me or not, .. A lot of thoughts haaha.. Whether I'd sound clingy, needy.. If it was online: would he reply back? What if he doesn't...Cos I don't want to seem or sound like an idiot ..bla blaa

    all this usually leads to me not initiating anything, which I hate. Hate that I think too much .. :/

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  • I replay the conversation in my head afterward and pick out the smallest flaws. I end up feeling embarrassed for days and without much confidence.

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  • I wanna talk but I don't wanna bug him

    I don't know what to say

    When we do talk I feel bad that I always look away...but...he's so good lookin I can't look for more than a few secs because I don't wanna gawk at him and get weird...if that makes any sense lol

    I wanna hug him/get a handshake...orrrr better yet have him spot me in the weight room but I don't know how to ask...for any or all three of those...

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  • I really don't have a problem communicating with people I like.

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  • I think way too much, although I'm working on that.

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