I know it sounds like a stupid question. Many of you would say that of course love comes first. However, I and my friends encountered such problem before and sometimes the situation is vice versa.
1. I dated a guy before. Our relationship was very romantic, but I did not agree to have sex with him after 2 months of relationship. He then dumped me for that reason.
2. My girlfriend dated a guy and had sex with him in the early stage of relationship. At that time she did not intend to have a long-term relationship. But they ended up getting married.
Some men told me their love grows after having sex with a girl. Otherwise they feel no connection to lead to love. What do you girls and guys think about this?
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Love, my girlfriend and I haven't had sex, don't plan on it any time soon and we have an amazing relationship filled with love, respect, and fun. We're constantly trying to please one another in any sort of way we think of, we don't have the typical movie and dinner dates usually, usually we bring a blanket walk through stores looking at different things and being silly go back to our vehicles take out some food and drinks toss the blanket in the back of her truck and have a picnic enjoying everything there is to be enjoyed from the company of one another to the clouds in the sky, not because we can't go out to dinner or to the beach, but because we can, but enjoy this that much more, every moment with one another is special.
So what I mean to say is to have a truly loving relationship you don't need sex, a passion for one another, yes, but not necessarily sex. You'll find who fits you best when you're just being you, whoever that you is. It will take as many days, weeks, months, or years as it may take to find that special someone, but when it happens the time it took seems to make since and no longer matter and all other trials before help to build you to be the right person for the person that's right for you.
Anyways, best of luck to you and God bless, ALSO Happy Thanksgiving! =D0