OK so I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a girl named Jordan we have been dating since July and she's one of the best gf's I ever had despite the distance. I turned 18 last month & she's 16 & her mom doesn't approve of us 1000 percent yet because she hasn't talked to me in person yet. She lives 4 hours away, we send letters back & forth, I sent her a teddy bear off amazon with some of my birthday money & everything else. But she went out of town for Thanksgiving break to deer camp where she couldn't use her cell much at all. I missed her like crazy & started talking to this girl named Caitlin & she told me she likes me & went on & on about how its so hard to find a good guy & what not & I started to like her but didn't tell her I sort of have a girlfriend. What do I do? Stay with the long distance girlfriend Jordan or break up & give Caitlin a chance? I'm gonna go see Jordan in a few months anyways when I get my own car but I'm not sure. I love Jordan but I like Caitlin, what do I do?
Who do I pick, Jordan or Caitlin?
What Girls Said 2
"but I didn't tell I sort of have a girlfriend" What a B. Sort of. Jordan is your girlfriend! She don't deserve a sort of girlfriend title just because she is a long distance relationship.
To answer your question, dump Jordan and date Caitlin. Long distance relationships are hard, and they're for people who are more strong for the person they are in a relationship with and don't just fall other people who get closes to them. I'm saying this to isht on you, but it's true. If you love Jordan in a way where you want to still be with her, you wouldn't be asking this question.0
You don't sort of have a girlfriend, you do have a girlfriend. And you don't love her if you're chatting girls up and hiding the fact that you have one. I understand long distance relationships are tough, but what you're doing is wrong. You're not as good of a guy as she thinks you are.0
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