OK so , is it OK to text a guy a small text the day after a date, to let him know you are interested...i just said " well I am just letting you that I am interested, and placing the ball in your court"...Its my way of letting them know I am interested ( Because some guys assume not) but not being pushy. Does this come off as desperate?
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Well if your goal is attraction then you've failed. :(
The problem with this is that it's boring. And boring kills attraction. This tells him how you're feeling and leaves him no room to wonder... and wondering about how you feel plants you into his head... all night.
I would prefer something like this...
" I'm so full, how do you feel? :) "
I would like something like this because it initiates chatting, which tells me she's into me.
But being direct is actually okay, as long as it's attractive.
How about something like this?
"I had a fun time tonight! AND You looked super cute. :) "
"Let's do that again... and please wear that yummy cologne again!"
Flirting is more fun and it still tells him that you're interested without being boring...
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