Ok I just wanna stress that I've tried everything! Like I've tried nice clothes tht I got with advice from girls on this site, nice hair, I workout, I've tried starting convos with girls. But it doesn't get me anywhre!
It feels like I'm gunna die alone. All my friends are out getting laid or dating and I can't seem to get a girl.
Idk what the trick is.
I am confident always, but latly my confidence has been going down. I go to a community college, I don't know if thtll help but I can't seem to do it. Do I really need to go out and get drunk to get girls?
What do I do?
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Nope. You don't meet quality women in bad places (aka bars/night clubs but if you just want to get laid omit this paragraph).
Community college in particular is hard for a couple reasons. 1)People tend not to hang out before or after class because they are students but still tend to have full time jobs and family lives outside of school. 2) The majority of people at the community college see it as a stepping stone to get some where else and aren't necessarily looking to form long term bonds.
Still you have an advantage being in college because there are a variety of clubs that you can join to meet people with similar interests. Plus there is always online dating but school functions have worked out pretty well for my male friends. Just be yourself and maintain the attitude that you aren't single because you can't get a girl but because you haven't found a girl worth being with yet.0