He texts but stops responding after two messages?

Conversation was:

Him: What're you doing? 8:00

Me: Gonna walk my dog, you? 8:10

Him: Nothing really, on Facebook. 9:00

Me: Oh that's fun. 9:05

... Then he never responded .. Why even text me if you're not interested? -_-


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Text him back starting a conversation, ask him how his day went. It sounds like he just felt like the conversation was over. But honestly you shouldn't think too much into this. Some people, especially guys, don't think that way. Texting isn't always viewed as the prime way to communicate. Some people just prefer to talk in person.

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    • he doesn't ask to hangout :S sometimes he'll ask if I know about any parties or anything. But that's about it .

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    • true true. I'll just stop responding to his messages. thanks for your help :)

    • Yea I know some guys like that, that's usually the best thing. But anytime! (:

What Guys Said 5

  • He thinks you're boring, add more detail to your next reply, instead of "Oh, that's fun." try "Oh, that sounds interesting, anything special you're doing on it" try to add another question to let him reply to you. a conversation always has two sides and both of the people need to do their part to make it more interesting. ask him how his day was, what his plans are, anything new in his world. that way he will be more compelled to reply and the conversation will be more lively.

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  • maybe he couldn't think of anything to say and was hoping you would help the conversation along. By just saying that's fun didn't leave him any room to respond. Not saying he couldn't have chosen a new topic, but I know I have the tendency to stop talking if I only get responses that only answer the questions I ask. When someone just responds I tend to think they're just being polite or don't really want to talk so I stop

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  • So he should text indefinitely? This girl was mad at me when I didn't reply to a text that didn't need a reply. I advise you just forget about it.

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  • You took 5-10 minutes between each text so he figured you were busy (which you were). He didn't know you'd be walking your dog, so he stopped. Also, most people only reply when a question is involved; you can't really reply to a comment (rarely)

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    • Could also just be that he ran out of things to say or..didn't want to come off as clingy, you know how that can be haha

  • He might be on a weird data plan with his phone co.

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What Girls Said 4

  • MAYBE just MAYBE he left. Just because he didn't respond doesn't mean anything. Something could have come up, he could have had to do something or go somewhere. Never read into anything to deeply over electronics, always get the real stuff face to face.

    I know this was blunt but there are SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many Qs like this!

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    • Yeah I know what you mean haha. It's just that it's a usual thing for him. I get the vibe that he's not interested, but then he goes and texts me. maybe I'll just start ignoring him.

    • Yea you should do that, and if the messages come flooding in then ya know lol

  • Text something to pull him into conversation

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  • Well I am not sure what he would say to that. The sounds fun doesn't really lead anywhere.

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  • He might not have felt the need to respond after your last text. He did initiate texting you, which means he's obviously interested.

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    • and when I text him, I feel like I'm bothering him !

    • Haha I know that feeling. Welcome to womanhood! Lol jk. As hard as it is not to overanalyze it, try not to. It's hard to tell someones intentions over texts. Too impersonal

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