This is with my two best friends and the guy I am seeing. They never seem to text me first, and rarely are they the ones making plans to hang out. I am pretty tired of it..it seems like I am the only one putting effort into these relationships. I want to just stop texting them and wait to see if they will make plans..but I will have no one to talk to then. What do you think I should do?
I'm always the one texting first and making the plans?
What Guys Said 1
Hmm. Well, they might just be used to you taking the initiative in those things, so they don't worry about it.0
What Girls Said 1
yeah stop putting so much effort in if they aren't gonna do it for u. stop texting and give them a break..u will look less pressed to hang out with them and they'll probably start wondering why your not texting0
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