I'm trying to figure out why this chick from work has such weird texting patterns, a few weeks ago she responded to at least 90% of my texts, last week she ignored most of them so I didn't text her for a week and today, I noticed she liked something I posted on Facebook at like 5:36 am and I texted her saying "what are you doing up, its too early, go back to bed" and she told me she had already been awake for an hour, an then ignored my next too text, then later today, I texted her again and got no response.. I've heard her mention in the past that she's just lazy sometimes and other times that she just doesn't know what to say, but I've never seen her response rate to me be so low, am I worrying over nothing or should I call her out on it?
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I always say communication is key to any relationship whether it be with friends, family, or partners, you have to have that trust and self-assurance that there's no time to be wasted, so if something is bothering you, there's a reason for it. Either because it's all in your head or there's hard evidence.
Back to you, I'd say there's nothing to worry about because a) you two aren't going out, I'm assuming you guys are co-workers that's all b) us ladies can tell when a guy is into us, just like you guys can tell when we're being obvious and we want something, in other words, she's either playing it cool and a little hard to get or just doesn't want to make conclusions and overreact so to me, its simple. The girl has a life just like you, too bad she hasn't heard from you how you feel about her, maybe that will make her text you everyday but then there's the chance of rejection, plus if you don't like her than why so worried about her not returning the texts? Either you do care about her in a deep level or you don't because any other guy would had moved on, so if you do, then call her out, let her know, if she cares about you she'll give you her reasons for not doing it, it doesn't mean she'll change, but hey, she'll acknowledge it and try to have a decent kinda long conversation with you or just text you back every now and then so no worries, go with the flow and take some chill pills, there's nothing wrong going on here. :)