There's a guy I liked, and we were texting and I had hung out with him and his friends a few times, and it seemed like he liked me. He texted me once for 3 hours, and I met him because I'm friends with his roommate, and he got my number from my friend and texted me first, and when we hung out I caught him staring at me a few times. And so one time I slept over. And he gave me his jersey and shorts to wear to bed. And then when we went to sleep they decided it would be fun to 'be eskimos' and turn on the AC all night... and so that night the guy I liked kept stealing my covers... and eventually when he went to the bathroom I hopped into his bed... and then eventually he joined me. And we kept flirting all night and he put his arm around me and kinda held my hand. And he stole my pillow so I had to share his... and we were like face to face at many points. But that was it... because after that he never answered my texts. So I don't know what I did wrong... but then I told one of my guy friends and he said I should have kissed him... but do you think if I had kissed him he'd still have talked to me? Did not kissing him really make him think I wasn't interested?
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hmm...it's hard to tell what could have happened. from the sounds of it, everything should be ok, but there's obviously some reason there isn't. is he a flaky person? do you know if there's another girl he's interested in? I don't mean to sound rude by saying this (it is something that can happen to anyone), but is he out of your league?
he was obviously attracted and had some sort of interest in you but at the same time it seems he wasn't all that interested either if he started ignoring you after. he could have just wanted to "get some" that night whether or not you kissed him and the opportunity just passed by. as a guy I can tell you that I've done this to girls (let them chase me and only sometimes hang out to [hopefully] hook up) and after when they text me I kind of just ignore them for the time being.
that's probably worst case scenario. he might just be very shy or awkward. I recommend that you see how he treats other girls and compare it to your own situation. either way, don't chase after him.
also no, not kissing him didn't make him think that you weren't interested because you've texted him afterward. he knows you're interested, the question is whether he is or not.0