Went on a date...really was not feeling the chemistry. In all honesty the thought of having sex with him made my v*gina tighten. I just don't feel a connection at all.
He texted me saying "I had fun tonight" but I am SO not into it. I was thinking I'll tell him in the morning, but how do I let him down nicely? We met online so I think it's fair to email him because that was our main communication, and he thinks I went to bed early tonight so I don't have to answer.
What do I say?
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Be kind, but direct. Guys (especially like me) HATE "the dance"... in other words, your thoughts are right on the money, you just need to phrase it in guy talk:
"You know, our date was nice, but I just wasn't feeling a connection" ~ And STOP talking. Silence can be powerful...0