Aren't things a lot faster like when people kiss or make them a girlfriend or boyfriend? I hear stuff like people have sex at the 5th date is that really true? I don't want college dating to be that fast?
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Depends really. I can only give you my experience:
Not so many out and out dates, more like lots of hanging out. While the relationships do move faster, people usually end up spending more time with each other. So yes, you'll probably have sex by the 3rd or 4th date, but in terms of time spent together, it may be closer to the equivalent of a much higher higher date count. That said, yes, it still moves faster normally. Also, quite a bit of casual sex.
By the way: as a freshman, watch out for junior/senior guys. Freshman girls are famous for being easy for juniors and seniors, and not because they're slutty. I'm not saying that there aren't quite a few real relationships between seniors and freshmen. I am saying that there are also quite a few instances of seniors and juniors knowing EXACTLY what to say to get into a freshman girl's pants.
Post college dating:
So now it's a bit more like high school, with more dates but less time spent together just chilling. And both parties are less ashamed of sex, probably enjoy sex quite a bit, and use it to de-stress from work. So, faster than high school, slower than college.0
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