I've been dating a guy for 3 weeks. We see each other about 3-4 times a week. he's told me that he likes me a lot but I've noticed that he rarely calls me. he's only texted me, but not everyday. there'll be days here and there where I just don't hear from him at all. how often should I expect him to be calling me? I worry a lot and I get anxious so I'd like to hear from him at least once a day, even if its only for 5 min. is that wanting too much after such a short period of time?
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Well, there is no "should". How often a couple talks varies from couple to couple.
Also keep in mind that not everyone is a "phone person"---a person who doesn't like talking on the phone isn't likely to call you much.
But yeah, you've only been together for 3 weeks, and you sound like you're becoming pretty clingy. You see each other 3-4 times a week. He says he likes you a lot. That's great. Why are you worrying and getting anxious? What's wrong with going a day without talking? Has he given you any indication that he doesn't like you?
Also, keep in mind that you can call him too. You don't have to just sit around and wait for him to call (though, I'm not necessarily saying that you should call him every single day).1