Here's my situation, I've been seeing this girl for the last 3 weeks or so, we've hung out a few times and went on a couple dates, but I would not really consider her my girl friend or vice versa. My problem is that I think she is still feeling me out and isn't quite sure if I'm what she is looking for. I have no problem with this, it's just that every relationship I've been in, I've pretty much gone from 1st date to boyfriend and girlfriend right afterward. She knows that I like her and has even agreed on a 3rd date, but I can tell she just wants to take things really slow. Seeing as I'm not really used to taking things slow, I'm not really sure what this means, do I talk to her everyday or give her enough breathing room as to not come off as clingy? Do I wait for her to make the first move as far as moving our "relationship" further? I know these are probably just simple/common sense questions/concerns, but these are definitely new waters for me
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I disagree with the anonymous guy. Don't play games, and don't date other girls if you really like her. If I found out that someone I was dating (and was pretty serious about) was also seeing other girls, I'd drop him. I have enough respect for myself to not tolerate that, even though the current convention seems to be that when you're dating you can see multiple girls at once. I will only date the guys who are genuinely interested in me, and only me.
This doesn't mean that you should talk to her 5 hours a day, of course. Maybe a short conversation every day? If she seems busy and has to go during these conversations, make it every other day.0