Well a guy I'm talking to says he is not the jealous type which is great, but he always text me asking what am I doing? (Controlling) maybe. And when I'm with him and I get a phone call he always asks me who it is? I never ask him when he gets a text or phone call I'm not jealous at all and can really care less but what does it mean when he asks me?
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In his defense, "What are you doing?" is often used as a conversation starter or to see if the person is too busy to have a conversation. And when someone interrupts their time with me to answer their phone, I would get annoyed if they gave no explanation. I wouldn't necessarily say those are red flags for being jealous or controlling. He is just taking an interest in you! Be glad he does ask questions :)0