Well, if you have read my last question about my ex you will be up to date if not here is a little summary;
She went to a party, met some guy, had a lot of fun and we then went on a break. I later found out while we were on the break she kissed that guy so I told her that I didn't want to talk to her until she knew what she wanted.
We stopped talking on the phone and stopped texting one another for about a week straight.
Well, about two days ago I get a Myspace message. We got in a fight about that guy she kissed and I told her I was done . I deleted her from myspace (she already logged off so she didn't know about this until the next day) and sent her a text telling her that because she has been treating me like shit I did not want to be with her. I did not get any message back that night.
Then the next morning I was in my art class and I get a text. It said "You seriously deleted me from Myspace!?!?" We started talking about everything and she said she wanted to still be friends on their so I agreed.
Then later that night she texts me and we start talking about the whole situation. I asked her if I could call her, this being a very personal subject and she agrees. So, she called me and we talked for about an hour. She said it was not about that guy and that she hasn't even talked to him after that occasion (I believe her for some reason). Also, she said she is just very confused and needs time to find herself. She wants space to see if I am truly what she wants in life (we started dating at a younger age of 16 and been together for three years). I do not blame her for feeling this way and understand completely.
When we stopped talking she did say that no matter what does happen her heart will always tell her she loves me, it is just her mind that is worried.
So my question is: what should I do? Should I stop all contact with her? Only text her if she does first? Don't cal' her let her call me?
I understand how she must feel right now, and truthfully I think we could work this out but I don't want to do anything to ruin it.
P.S.- she told me that she doesn't exspect me to wait for her. I have told her before I wasn't goign to be her safety net. Does this just mean she doesn't think we will get back together and is sugar coating it? I am confused myself.
Thank you in advance.
I said love you too and hung up.
Why would she just randomly ask that when she is straightening her hair? It kind of seems she was just looking for a reason to call. But I don't know.