How often should I expect him to contact me? We've been on numerous dates, although we haven't had sex. We're coworkers (but we don't necessarily see each other every day, maybe a couple of times a week) and we usually email back and forth every day. But he's on a business trip right now and I haven't heard from him in 3 days. I know he's busy and jetlagged and stuff but I'm kind of upset that he hasn't contacted me for this long. It's the longest we've gone without talking to each other since we started dating! What should I do? He's also going home to spend Christmas with his family right after his business trip so I'm not seeing him again for 3 weeks, and I'm afraid that he'll lose interest (out of sight, out of mind?) but I don't want to appear desperate either!
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Just relaz. He probably relaxes on contact because you're workmates.
Obviously he wants to take the relationship one step at a time because of the possible problems of a workplace break-up, not to mention workplace gossip. Tha'ts just being smart.
You should be just as smart and not pressure him. Keep a slow pace with this. It's good to take some ime apart to thik and clear your heads, I think.
I don't think he'll lose interest in a few weeks, but be prepared for him telling you it's just too risky in a work situation.0