My boyfriend very rarely texts first. We also don't text often. It bugs me a little, but I can live with it. I don't mind too much.
However - after a particualry rubbish evening - I text him at half one this morning saying "I think I need one of your hugs x"
I was nicely surprised when he actually replied - some joke about how I could use him as a pillow instead (long story! lol). In my reply I said "sorry if I woke you, didn't think you'd get it til the morning."
He didn't respond, and that's fine.. I figured he'd fallen asleep. No worries.
But he didn't say anything in the morning, which would be the decent thing to do, right? Especially since it's extremely rare for me to do something like that.
And it's now 7pm and I've still heard nothing.
We were considering meeting up tonight, but I said it depended on whether I had to give my mum a lift and that I'd let him know. I assume he's waiting to find out if I'm free, but I'm quite annoyed that he hasn't bothered to message me or call me all day.
Should I text him, or leave it?
He said he's busy - after telling me yesterday he was free tonight.
And he didn't text earlier because of a hangover apparently -_-
And hour ago I got/replied to that message. He added on the end "You been okay?"
My response was "Been better. I thought you said you were free tonight?"
He usually takes 20-30 minutes to reply, but never more. Once this time's passed he generally doesn't reply at all.
Girls, what would you do? Guys, would you respond if your girlfriend said that?