What would you think if someone starts chat with u, and after you ask "whats up"or "how are u" he says, nm, I m bored. I want to start a convo with a girl, but I don't want to sound interested in her, and I think the "whatever" approach does some good :P yup its one of my few crushes xD and speaking to her in person would be hard unless in a bar since her friends hate me ^^ and probably want me expelled from university lol or at least 3 miles away.
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You don't want a girl you're interested in to think you're interested? So you want to get friend zoned?
Talk to her how ever it feels right man! Whenever I get a random message asking how I am I always respond with something along the lines of "Im absolutely awesome! :)" then ill type a few lines talking about whatever the hell I'm doing, open up some conversation branches to jump start the interaction. Nobody wants to talk to someone who's always "nm jc-ing" sh*ts boring. I know if a girl started a conversation with me and and pulled that id find someone more gratifying to talk to.1