Complicated story, but just looking for some female perspective. Hooking up (nothing heavy) at parties. Girl wants to go home with the guy but she was drunk and he said no. Guy ask girl when sober and she had felt rejected before and says no. Lot of tension and unsure of each other, but still hook up at parties. A lot of interest on her part still per others. The Second to last party Another hook up, but I later found out she just started seeing someone. The last party she was supposed to attend she did not.
This new relationship will not last, he was the guy she would go to for an explanation of me. At the last party we were both at he lived 3 blocks away, but she went home with a girlfriend 45 min away. If you were in a new relationship would you go home to him or a girlfriends. I have no intention to break them up, but how do I keep her interest while they are dating. Also, their dating is not public knowledge, I go it from another girlfriend of hers.
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Don't count on them breaking up, honestly, especially if they were friends before. If you care that much, you need to tell her how you feel, whether she's in a relationship or not, and explain why you rejected her before. Otherwise she will be even more confused if you continue to show signs of liking her (which is inevitable, I think) when she already tried to go home with you. You guys need to sit down and figure out who's confused and why, and sort it out. If she's not confused at all, you need to trust that she is making an informed decision no matter if it burns out or continues and goes well. It's possible that she's attracted to you, but doesn't want to date you. But don't try to keep her interested, sit down and disclose everything (yes, feelings) and if she was at all interested to begin with, that should be enough to make her think or leave the guy. But don't tease her trying to keep her interested in you while with this other guy.0