It technically wouldn't be the first, he texted me Merry Christmas! last week, but I work with him & while he's a very confident guy with others he's very shy, awkward & quiet with me. I wanna talk to him but I'm scared that once I text him first It'll start a cycle, he'll lose interest or think I'm too easy or not go out of his way to text me or he'll automatically assume he's "got me" and the chase will be gone.
I don't really need advice on what to do...I just want to hear from girls and guys any stories on the girl texting a guy & it working out
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Its okay if you initiate the texting! But if he's truly interested in you he will then take the lead and start and carry conversations with you. Also, be careful of those office romances, many workplaces are fishbowls when it comes to that, no privacy at all.. That;s why some employers frown upon it and some outright forbid it. Best of luck.0