Long story short, I invite her over to my house. Girls hella hot, I like her personality and I feel the click, so she gets into my bed and we're watching a movie. I take it smooth, whisper what she wants 2 hear, go in for the kiss, and then I'm overrun and end up banging her. The sex was awesome, and she loved it too.
She's the one that text and calls the next day, so I'm guessing she wants to take things further.
It's been a couple of days and she's been acting weird, not texting being all cold. Anyways I get her to admit she's feeling bad cause we had sex on the first day, she says she feels pathetic etc...She says she's not ready for a relationship and all that jazz and was looking 4 friendship...Seems like she's tellin the truth cause I felt that this was the problem.
Anyways I want to see more of this girl, and I know what I say right now will either set the course or ruin it.
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Tell your girl that she is not pathetic etc. Make sure she knows you still want her but are also still a guy and needs whatever YOU need in this, and make sure you both get what you both want out of this.
Remember; She is feeling like someone who is 'easy' and doesn't want guys to think that, she's confused and worried about how things will go after your first date, use your past experiences and guide her through. But don't make her feel as if she can't do anything, or else its over between you two.1