So, me and my boyfriend(we are both Christians) have been together for a little over a month and we just had our first kiss (neither of us had been kissed before). My parents found out and got real mad and were saying how I am a tease because I don't want to have sex before I am married, but I am arousing him. I really like kissing and hugging him, but I don't want to disobey my parents and rot in Hell for all eternity. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
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If your trying to live according to the Bible and you're questioning your action, maybe you need to look at yourself and really ask yourself if you are doing something that God disapproves of. A lot of these answers talk about how your parents need to adjust to the real world and every Christian sins. Things is to live by the Bible is not a common thing living in this world. It's the Devil field on earth. Yet, you have the strength to not conform, mistakes will be made of course. the Bible isn't for the rich and healthy, but the poor and sick.
In laments term, you are suppose to obey your parents but it's what in your heart that tells you if what your doing is inappropriate. Seek help from a older member YOU RESPECT from your church or something. Sometimes getting opinions from other adults are more influential.
If all else fails, pray about it! He'll let you know.1