I'm dating casually right now, as in, it's understood that the dating between one guy and I is not exclusive. I'm dating three guys right now. Two are already out of the picture, for permanency. One is an avid hunter, and I'm an animal rights activist. The other, asked me to be his actual girlfriend tonight, is simply a physical thing, at least for me. But I can't spend much time aroun him because he truly irritates the crap out of me, though he's a nice guy. So that brings me own to an ex, and the third guy I'm seeing. Of course, they happen to have the same first name, too lol.
My ex treated me well for the most part, unless he was drunk. And he dumped me in a pretty bad way.
The other is such a sweet guy, we've gone on four dates now, he's a complete gentleman, and I'm not used to such chivalry!
I know the answer is glaringly obvious, but what would you do in this situation? I am quite tempted to give my ex another chance, because I do love him. But I simply adore this other guy. When is too much for staying in touch with exes?
Just looking for opinions on this certain situation. Thanks!
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Your ex is a drunk. It's foolish to go back to a drunk -- he had his chance with you. Avoid drunks.
Go with the gentlemen. Women are always complaining about the lack of gentlemen in the world. Don't be a typical girl and pick the heartbreaking bad boy drunk over the good guy.
If you go back to the ex, you'll be here in 6 months, asking how to persuade this great gentleman to give you another chance after you stepped over him to go back to a freaking drunk.