I met this girl at homecoming when I was a senior in college, two years ago. She had a boyfriend at the time a big loser. We all got drunk. She kept on complimenting me and giving me lots of signs of interests and touchy feely stuff. Thoguh her Boyfriend was there so there was no chance for anything as I had just met her and she had a bf, etc.
She said how great a guy I was and how any girl would want to be with me and what friends she could set me up with, etc. She was drunk, keep in mind.
She lives in Boston and I in NYC. She is visiting NYC this weekend and she called me to meet up.
How do I seal the deal and hook up with her? I am thinking a lot of kino and sextalk. What are good strategies? How do I make fun of her lightly and get her off balance?
Finally, for a girl I don't see often like heri feel I almost have to make out with her that night or at least a kiss; because I feel a memory needs to be established and a precedent for future stuff; otherwise stuff could be ambiguous (ljbf or a grey area or her losing interest); like I need to be aggressive and forward (obviously not in an extreme way)
otherwise she migh tlose interest
what do you think?
because I don't see her often
How do I aggressively go for her physically and kiss her? when can I tell if the moment is right?
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Take her on a nice date, one that she would think is flattering. Make it memorable by being fun and outgoing, and also by taking her somewhere unique that other guys who have taken her on dates might not have thought of. Once I went on a date to a planetarium and the museum. The show was about dinosaurs and we had fun giggling about memories we had there when we used to go as kids. We then went out for dinner afterwards to a restaurant we both haven't been before. I had a great time!
Some other cute ideas (outdoor ice skating, drive in movie, day at the beach, a hike, a tapas bar, a restaurant with exotic food you both haven't tried before, a concert with a band she enjoys, mini golf, a picnic).
To let her know your interested, compliment her, look right into her eyes when you talk to her and smile. Physical contact is universal body language for "im interested in you." Touch her shoulder occasionally when you talk to her or put your hand on her knee for a small bit if you guys are sitting next to each other.
Sex talk is lame to me. It's a turn off usually, and I'm a very sexual person. Just kiss her when it feels right and take her on a nice date. Treat her with respect. Women truly love that.0