OK, I am in my mid-20's and still in college...however, I make quite a bit of money for someone with no degree (especially for a college student). I know a few women my age and a little older who are in the same situation, but for some reason don't seem to care at all about the employment situation of guys that they date.
I am not even looking for someone with a great job. I would prefer someone with a degree...even if he is still a grad student or something. If he is out of school, I expect a full time job. I work full time and go to school...he should at least work 40 hours per week.
Honestly, I am not even concerned with the money aspect and I am not looking for someone to pay my bills or buy me lavish gifts. I want to go on dates occasionally...and I like it when the guy pays, but he doesn't have to every time unless he wants to.
Mostly, I just want someone who is hardworking and somewhat successful. He doesn't even have to have a great job, he just needs to have one. Is this selfish or shallow on my part? Other women make me feel like it is.
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no it's not selfish imo. I'd prefer to be with a woman who has a job and isn't waiting for a handout or trying to play me as a sugar daddy. when we go out it would be nice if we both had a little cash on us just in case, not just me covering everything.1