So, there's this guy and we have AMAZING chemistry. I'm talking out of control, I felt you from across the room - but we have the strangest non-relationship. It's been going on for 2 years, but it seems like every 6 months one of us texts the other, and it's on again. Great dates, mad respect, and little more intimate each time...then it fades.
So, it's about that time again, but this time...I don't know if I wanna respond. He ONLY texts me, and he takes 24hrs to text back when I respond. WTF?! Given, now I do the same thing to him because I'm spiteful...but do I have a chance? Can I make this anything? I never call and I'm admittedly very inconsistent - but can I change that? He once told me that he had "met his match" in me, and I know that's good (?)...
Can I turn this around?
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To me this seems like a simple one ^^ Do you want to get closer to him?
It appears so, so just go after him. Tell him you'd like to hang around with him, if things go well tell him more about your feelings for him.
If things just stay the way they are you COULD go on with an ultimate line like "you see, we've been on and off for about two years now, I made clear that I like you - just make up your mind weather I should stay or go..." - though such things are just ... well ... not good ^^
Getting on and off and on and off won't bring you anywhere, I've been this road just the past year and as the girl on my side wouldn't make up her mind I've decided to let it go.
Decide if he's worth it going after and then take your actions. If you're too unsure it would eventually be better to let it go, too.
But this is just for you to decide, hope I helped a bit1