I've heard how obvious guys can be but I'm oblivious. So help please! Thanks :)
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Guys that aren't specifically interested in you may be friendly, but they usually won't go out of their way to be "nice". That's more for guys who ARE interested in you.
- You're in a room with a bunch of people. Not-interested-in-you-guy (NIIYG) might see you, smile, and say "Hi" from across the room. Interested-in-you-guy (IIYG) will walk across the room, say "Hi", and engage in a bit of conversation.
- You're unloading a bunch of stuff from your car and taking it inside. NIIYG might help carry in a load as he's going in the building. IIYG will make several trips back to the car to help you fully unload everything.
- NIIYG may let you tag along with him to McDonalds, will park, let you go inside, and by yourself some food. IIYG will also PAY for your food, or at least offer to.
In other words, NIIYGs won't make any special effort to be around you, or do favors for you, or show off around you, or otherwise get or keep your attention. IIYGs will do those things.4