how often do you see your boyfriend/girlfriend on a weekly basis? just curious as to how I should be feeling. I just made things official with a guy so I'm in the new relationship phase and its exciting and fun. I think its healthy not to constantly be with one another, and to still have separate lives. but I want to see him all the time. and when we're apart I miss him. he's not as emotional as I am and balances out his life better meaning he can spend a couple of days with me and a couple of days here and there with his boys. when I'm not with him I get anxious but I'm trying not to show it and act like I have other things going on too. right now, we see each other about 3-4 days outta the week. ugh.. I don't know what to do.
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It's a good exercise to try getting yourself to see him a little less than you'd like. It helps you be more independent and concentrate on yourself. Both people in a relationship don't always agree on how much time they want to spend together, so you may have to compromise if you want to try to make it work.
My boyfriend and I have always spent a lot of time together, that's just how we are. I have never had many friends as it is, so I'm kind of dependent on him. But he is okay with that and makes the effort to see me whenever he can. We try to see each other everyday.
When we're in school, we just see each other on the weekends. That used to be hard on me, but I've gotten more used to it and I'm happier being able to do things on my own and feel productive.0