ok so I'm kinda freaking out. so guy I dated a couple months we started slow but things got moving faster last couple dates emotionally and physically... crazy chemistry, connection... almost overwhelming for me felt he felt the same way. but then we had kinda a disagreement. I sent a text that was kinda rude but at same time just sticking up for myself.
we didn't talk for two weeks. two weeks later he texts me saying how sorry he was that it was his fault we had fight that he was just overwhelmed with life that I was great girl and he had feelings for me but he was in nasty custody fight with wife and he couldn't concentrate on anything else at moment. that he wanted to keep seeing me but wanted to get son's visits set up first and that after that when he called if I didn't want to answer and talk he wld understand.
I responded in kind saying I wished him luck with custody fight that I felt same way, etc. OK, so it's been only two weeks. we had both been on dating site. I got off last week... didn't want to see his profile up since I know we both went on a bit and it wld be too hard for me to see him on if he did go on.
well my friend who is on contacts me tonight says that the guy closed his account. I cldn't check Because I'm not on but she showed me her site and he was indeed deleted off with user closed account message. what does this mean? is it just confirmation that he got off Because he just focusing on battle with son? cld he have met someone else in two weeks and already gotten off site for her? cld he have gotten off Because he saw I was off? ugh I wish she didn't tell me Because now I am overthinking it help lol...
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Well that's a much different situation versus what I hear mostly which is the man created a profile behind the girls back. If he deleted it I would assume that he really is under some kind of pressure to deal with real life issues. Perhaps just the opposite has occured, that he has closed his account and wants to seek out a real relationship with you instead. So maybe YOU are that girl he shut his account down for.
It also could be what I think is the more likely situation (if not what is pushing his motives more than his feelings for you) is the custody battle that he is going through to get his son. I would say just give him a little more time, like say a week but after that contact him if doesn't to you first and ask what's going on. How he is doing and details about the custody battle. I think your panicking a little bit and thinking the worst which in fact I don't think is the situation at all.0