just being one on one with a guy I like and am getting to know is scary! like WHAT DO WE TALK ABOUT? I feel like it would be so awkward and so much pressure and what if there is a silence? aaahhh
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If there is silence he will focus on you and how you look and how hi like him. If he don't like you, there is nothing to do, and if he does, then He will start conversation, he will bring it back on, wouldn't him?
When you get scared, at that moment try to think that he is thinking the same. It will balance you out, because he Is most probably thinking the same. He is thinking: "What am I going to say?". He is nervous too, even if he does not show that. Most probably at that situation he is feeling awkwardness for both of you so you don't have to :D.
So when you realize that he is in the same situation you are and that it is as much pressure on him too. If something goes wrong you didn't do it. You Both did it. If something goes absolutely right it is your fault :D as much as his.
There is one rule. There are no faults in communication. Only feedback. When you get bad reaction it is a success. But you communicated something else than you wanted. So try it some other way. It is opportunity to communicate better.
So go talk the crap out of him :).0