My by of 3 years texts a female friend from the time He wakes up until she goes to bed. If I ask him what they are talking about he says nothing. He deletes everything from his phone about every 5 minutes or so. When I try to tell him how I feel about all this he gets mad and says what don't you trust me?. Should I be worried about this?
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People either want to be with one person or they don't. There are only two decisions that he can make 1. respect you and make you feel more comfortable or 2. disrespect you and make you fell less comfortable. There should not be anything wrong with him having a friend that is a girl as long as he and she respect you. If he is hiding things from you then he is making the decision to make you uncomfortable for his own selfish reasons which in the end is disrespecting you.
Have you ever met the girl? If so how does she act towards you? Does she ignore you or is she short with you? or is she nice to you accepting of your friendship? The best thing to do when your boyfriend/girlfriend has a friend of the opposite gender is to get to know that friend. That way you can begin to understand them as a person which may make you feel more comfortable or less comfortable.0