I met this girl online and we have been talking for about a month. We have a date planned for tomorrow at 3. But I noticed last night that she deleted her profile on the dating site we met on. I have no way to get a hold of her. I don't think she's going to totally blow me off without a message because that would be so rude, but could you think of positive reasons she might have deleted her profile before our first date?
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This just happened to me with a guy. Almost the exact situation. He "favorited" me. He told me he wanted to set a date up soon. The last e-mail he sent me was completely flattering. Then, poof! He disappeared. I did a background check on him using public records, social networks and online sources and found that everything he told me checked out - his name, his job, family, everything. But I also found another recent photo of him online. He looked about 100 pounds larger and ten years older than the photo he posted for his profile. Maybe he was just hiding himself. Maybe he wanted to enjoy the thrills of a cyber relationship but was afraid that reality would be disappointing. Maybe he has another woman in his life. Maybe these maybes are what lead your lady to vanish. Maybe she had something to hide. Maybe she was afraid of disappointment. Maybe she was only on the cyber market. We can only speculate. But I think that in the end, our vanishing cyber connections probably did us a favor. Perhaps they had low-self esteem, a slew of lies or a spouse by their sides. Whatever they were hiding would not have been good for us.0