I like a guy I have known for about two years and I am fairly certain he likes me too. He messages almost every day but our conversations have sort of been just pointless/silly stuff lately. He has asked me to go out with him and his friends a few times but I'm either always working or am attending another commitment.
I'm concerned that he's getting the impression that I'm not interested but that's definitely not the case. Also, our situation is a bit abnormal in that we slept together once, a while ago. I think this makes the prospect of a relationship sort of strange...
Guys and gals, any insight or advice?
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If you like him you might have to tell him, drop hints or make it a little more obvious that you do .. this helps you put you're feelings out there a little and at the same time show him that you are in fact interested in him .. Due to the fact that you're usually not available that may also make him feel you are not interested try freeing up sometime and asking him if he would like to hang out just you and him ;) .. If you sleep together if it's one thing I learned is that if you don't make it weird they don't make it weird, guys see it as sex so there not going to make it a big deal .. If you see it as strange there's a reason you feel that way and you have to find out what exactly it is .. If you slept together once that doesn't ruin the chances of the relationship that may in fact increase the chances .. this is how I'm viewing everything let me know if this helped or if there's anything else I should know or can help with :)0