I am meeting a girl that I have been talking to online for a while (she is a friend of mine) and she is coming to visit me next month. Now, I have never been confident with dating girls because of some physical inadequacies and the corresponding anxiety (I have only one testicle). However, this is not even my problem. I have started to realize that for me to be truly happy I need to let this go...
Anyway, like I said I pretty much skipped the dating scene and I really like this girl. I am not a great looker, have tons of money (am a poor phd student) and not very tall. Damn, I am getting depressed as I write this! The good thing is she knows all of this :)
However, I would still like to make a good impression and at least do my best to be physically attractive to her. I would like to know ant tips/opinions on what I should and should not do when I see her in a few weeks time. Bear in mind that I have limited financial resources :)
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Don't show or talk about your insecurities or "physical inadequacies", be confident and outgoing . Take her on a picnic, go for walks, go see a movie or rent a few , from my experiences some women love when guys cook only for them, maybe try cooking for her. Try playing some music and dancing with her, play games, just try to keep her entertained while getting to know her.0