For whatever reason, have you ever said to yourself, "That's it, I'm done", and completely given up on dating and things like that?
If yes, and you are comfortable sharing, what made you give up and decide the single life was better for you? Was it a bad relationship or particular experience?
If no, what is it that keeps you from giving up? Have you met anyone that's given you hope, or would you just prefer not to give up?
- Yes, I've given up.8% (1)20% (1)12% (2)Vote
- No, I always keep trying.42% (5)80% (4)53% (9)Vote
- I say I'm done, but I always go right back at it.42% (5)0% (0)29% (5)Vote
- Other (please explain).8% (1)0% (0)6% (1)Vote
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Yeah, after my first break up I was devastated. I went through all the that sh*t, of blaming myself and eventually hating my ex. It's just that I was so depressed and hurt, I never wanted to go through it again. Isolated myself from family and friends, turned to a complete nerd and kept myself busy. When I got bored of studying, started working out (helped a lot). It just removed all my anger and frustration. Took over 2 years for me to get over it. I guess time and gym helped a lot. Now I just don't invest so much emotion into my relationship, also my perspective of break ups has changed. I guess this is called being mature. Hope you never go through it though, or anyone for that matter.1