Guy kisses girl, they fall asleep on the couch, next morning a bit more kissing, guy goes home. Hours later get a text saying hey how are you? Would you do this if you didn't like the girl, or out of courtesy? Am totally confused as have heard nothing since. I've know him a few months, not close though, more acquaintances
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There are a number of factors to consider, but if for some reason I ended up on a couch with someone of the opposite gender and kissed her and kissed her again the following morning, followed by a text, then it wouldn't just be out of courtesy.
first question is did you reply to his initial text afterward or ignore it? what was your response like? was it over the top, normal or could it have been read as though you wasn't really that interested?
another thing to take into consideration is how long has it been since all this happened, is it days, weeks, months?
And then there is how you came to be on the couch in the first place?, you say you have known him a few months, but not close, but you obviously went on a date, or am I wrong? have you tried to text him since he went quiet?
To save confusion and messing your own head up, contact him and ask how he is, and see if he replies and how he replies, or just ask him outright.